Tuesday, March 28, 2006

A note of thanks

Jim, David, and I would like to express our appreciation to everyone who came to the funeral, swung by the house, visited Dee in the hospital, prayed for Dee (and us) , and have helped out in countless different ways.

We've been overwhelmed (in a good way) with the outpouring of support and the love expressed for Dee. It is humbling to see how much so many loved Dee.

Thank you.

Sunday, March 26, 2006

Graveside Service Information

Location: Edgewood Cemetery
Time: Tuesday March 28, 10:00 AM

A funeral procession will leave from Mann's Funeral Home (next to Central Baptist Church of Bearden) at 9:45 AM Tuesday morning.

Funeral Information

Funeral will be held at Central Baptist Church immediately following reception of family and friends.

Reception of Family and Friends
Location: Central Baptist Church of Bearden Sanctuary
Time: Monday March 27, 2006, 5:00-7:00 PM
Directions:Going east on I-40
1. Exit at Exit 383 (merges onto Northshore going south)
2. Continue south on Northshore Dr off of exit ramp
3. At second light, turn right onto Kingston Pike. (Exxon on right)
4. Church is immediately on left. Technically you turn onto Deane Hill Dr before turning into church parking lot.End at 6300 Deane Hill Dr

Going west on I-40
1. Exit 383
2. Go straight through light. (Stay in left hand lane)
3. Turn left at light onto Weisgarber Rd (go under I-40)
4. Turn left at light on Papermill Dr.
5. Turn right at light onto Northshore Dr.
6. At light, turn right onto Kingston Pike. (Exxon on right)
7. Church is immediately on left. Technically you turn onto Deane Hill Dr before turning into church parking lot.End at 6300 Deane Hill Dr

Rememberences of Dee

What's your favorite story about Dee that you would like to share? Leave a comment.

A Final Note from Dee Neel

The following is a note Dee prepared a couple days before her passing which she wished to have read at her funeral.

Sometimes things don’t go the way we plan. I fully expected to be here playing with my team during the USTA season and attending my son’s wedding.

God apparently had a different plan for me.

But God’s plan is always better. He did not cause the cancer that attacked my body. He did not make it get worse.

He was always there as I fought the disease. He answered prayers repeatedly. For over 12 years He answered prayers and kept me alive. For all of you who prayed for me, please know that God did and does answer prayers.

I wish the outcome had been different, but God is in control. Never cease praying.

I have faith in Him and someday I will be waiting in Heaven for you. I love you and and appreciate all you did for me.

Jim, you’re the world’s greatest husband. Jody and David – I love you – remember me as a good Mom.

Saturday, March 25, 2006

Obituary for Dee Neel

Obituary (written by Dee before passing) to appear in the Knoxville News Sentinel on Monday, March 27, 2006:

Elsie “Dee” O’Daniell Neel

Elsie “Dee” O’Daniell Neel joined
our Lord in Heaven on March 25, 2006 following a 12-year battle with breast cancer. She was 64, born on October 5, 1941.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Mr., and Mrs. Charles Washington O’Daniell, Jr., and brother, Larry Eugene O’Daniell. She is survived by her loving and caring husband of 39 years, Dr. James B. Neel, two supportive and wonderful sons, James O’Daniell Neel (Jody) and David Burkett Neel, their wives, Preethi Pillaipakkam and Rina Braden, brother and sister in-law, Ronnie and Marilyn O’Daniell of Dale City, Virginia, older brother Charles O’Daniell of Memphis, brothers and sisters-in-law, Phillip and Betty Dotson of Athens, Alabama, Nancy and Bob Burt of Tullahoma, Tennessee, and Thomas and Melissa Neel of Petersburg, Tennessee.
Surviving nephews and nieces include Amy and David Morgan of Dale City Virginia, Emily and Jeremy Puma of Seattle, Washington, Phillip and Rujina Dotson of Petersburg, Tennessee, John David and Danielle Dotson of Fairfax, Virginia, Becky and Lee Smith of Birmingham, Alabama, Beth Burt of New York City, Clint and Heather Neel of Nashville and Petersburg, Tennessee. Dee is also survived by her best friend, Faye Hickle of New Market, Tennessee as well as her “Shark Sisters,” and her tennis team captained by Jan Brown.

Dee was a native of Charlotte, North Carolina, a graduate of Wheaton College with a major in English Literature. She received her Masters Degree in Educational Psychology and Guidance from the University of Tennessee. She was a high school guidance counselor 9 year. She was also active as a Cub Scout Leader.

Dee was active in her church, Central Baptist Church of Bearden where she taught 7th grade Sunday School class for 12 years, 4th grade Royal Ambassadors for 10 years and an active Deacon.

She was an active participant in USTA Team Tennis at the 3.5 level for many years where she competed at the local, state, and Sectional levels and at the 6.5 and 7.5 levels for combo teams. She was also an acrylic painter, a magazine writer, and a lover of crafts and travel.

Dee approached life with joy and love. Her motto of life was Psalms 118:20, “This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”

The family expresses appreciation to friends who have been so supportive during the recent months. Friends will be received from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM at Central Baptist Church of Bearden with the funeral to follow. Graveside Service will be at Edgewood Cemetery Tuesday morning, March 28 at 10:00 AM. A procession to Edgewood will leave from Mann's Funeral Home at 9:45 AM on Tuesday. Memorial donations may be made in Dee’s name to the Youth Program at Central Baptist Church of Bearden.

Update
For those interested in making a memorial donation, the address of Central Baptist Church of Bearden is the following:

Central Baptist Church of Bearden
6300 Dean Hill Drive
Knoxville, TN 37919